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Henry, 21
12 January 1989
National University of Singapore, Nursing
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Henry and Life
Henry, 21
12 January 1989
National University of Singapore, Nursing
He loves books,
his family
and his awesome life!
fan of: harry potter & helping others to the best of his abilities
Tried to write a letter; In ink
I've got a piece of paper; But it's Empty
Henry Lamer and the Lame Randomness
Hi everyone! so sorry to keep u all waiting.. i know i know.. its been ages since i last updated. But dun worry, i'm not abandoning my blog, its not going to happen as long as i am still here. So ya.. Been thinking for the couple of weeks, but juz can't seem to blog about anything interesting, either that or i lost my inspiration when i finally manage to come in contact with a computer. Anyway, as my title suggested, i'm juz going to blog about some random, but yet not random stuff..
I kinda realise that as i listen to more people's problems, not only do i know how to deal with them when i experience the same problems, i also learnt to appreciate the life i have now. Its important that we do not take things forgranted and treasure whatever we have now. Yes, we may not have the best of everything. But its better than having nothing, or worse. Rite? i know its all sounding very cliche, but i sincerely think its true. And also, With age, comes responsibilty. Comparing someone who is 20, to someone who is say, 16, people expect different things from you, and that includes advices, comments etc.
For example,
Someone: Hey.. How's the movie?
A 16 year old: Lame la..
For a 16 year old, that answer would be fine to most people. But if a 20 yr old says that, people will juz think that he/she is shallow, or simply someone who has a lack of wisdom to say furthermore. So, a preferable reply would be:
Someone: Hey.. How's the movie?
A 20 year old: Well, its quite a lame movie. The jokes are so bad that even my jokes are better.
Someone: Haha.. thats quite true.
That's in my opinion, a better answer. Haha.. u may think otherwise of course, but i'm sure its along the same line.
Of course, many other situations actually requires u to display ur maturity as well. Like i mention above, when u listen to people's problems, and they ask for ur opinion, say something that's helpful. For example,
someone: Oh man, i just got rejected today! oh man.. feeling so depressed now.. how?
A 16 year old: dun be depress la, cheer up!
whereas for maturity,
Someone: Oh man, i just got rejected today! oh man.. feeling so depressed now.. how?
A 20 year old: Cheer up man! its her loss, i'm sure u can find a better one another day. yeah?
ok, that didn't turn out too well. That reply seem a bit lame. haha.. but anyway, i'm sure u got what i meant. haha..
Of course, its fine to actually be a 16 yr old at heart. But its not ok, to speak and behave like a 16 yr old when u are like 22 or something(juz an example). Yes, i understand that all of us, at some point of time want to feel young again, but acting childish is definitely not a way to do it.. haha..
oh ya, before i forget. ok, nvm.. think i dun wan to mention it now.. haha.. aiya, juz say a little bit to remove the itch.
I juz feel that its not that bad to be single. Ah see, i knew it, stop raising ur eyebrow or start getting skeptical. I mean every word i say and i say it not becoz i am desperate, or cannot find a girl fren or something. Its juz that, perhaps for myself, i have nvr really experience attached life before, so i dun really know the benefits. But what i see ffrom my frens and evrything, i still prefer being single.
Being single is more carefree. You dun have to report ur well being to another person other than ur parents. Your expenditure will be lesser. You got more time for urself. And ur family. And ur frenz. Ah, and speaking of that, i feel that is extremely unfair that u rather spend more time with ur gf, den a fren who perhaps had known u for 5 yrs, when u only knew ur gf for 1 yr, for example. I juz dun think its worth it. ya, i always get irritated when people abandon gatherings with their frenz juz becoz they need to spend time with their gf. U mean, u can't juz spend one moment away from them? how ridiculous!
Anyway, that's about all i have to say. Hope u guys enjoyed reading it, regardless whether u are attached or not. Haha. see u soon, readers! Tada!
Henry Lamer and the Weakest Link
juz a very random post...
haiz.. feeling a bit lost now.. is weakness determined by one's muscles? Is weakness determined by one's ability to fight back against any physical abuse? If yes, den i am weak.. haiz..
Was juz telling van juz now that in a guys world, power is determined by the amount of muscles and a bad attitude. I dun possess both, at least not in abundance. Is that the reason why i am being taken advantage of?
And is it really true that being nice will always get u bullied? haiz...
Detest being nice..
I've got a piece of paper; But it's Empty
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Wednesday, March 25, 2009 ( 4:07 AM )
Henry Lamer and the Lame Randomness
Hi everyone! so sorry to keep u all waiting.. i know i know.. its been ages since i last updated. But dun worry, i'm not abandoning my blog, its not going to happen as long as i am still here. So ya.. Been thinking for the couple of weeks, but juz can't seem to blog about anything interesting, either that or i lost my inspiration when i finally manage to come in contact with a computer. Anyway, as my title suggested, i'm juz going to blog about some random, but yet not random stuff..
I kinda realise that as i listen to more people's problems, not only do i know how to deal with them when i experience the same problems, i also learnt to appreciate the life i have now. Its important that we do not take things forgranted and treasure whatever we have now. Yes, we may not have the best of everything. But its better than having nothing, or worse. Rite? i know its all sounding very cliche, but i sincerely think its true. And also, With age, comes responsibilty. Comparing someone who is 20, to someone who is say, 16, people expect different things from you, and that includes advices, comments etc.
For example,
Someone: Hey.. How's the movie?
A 16 year old: Lame la..
For a 16 year old, that answer would be fine to most people. But if a 20 yr old says that, people will juz think that he/she is shallow, or simply someone who has a lack of wisdom to say furthermore. So, a preferable reply would be:
Someone: Hey.. How's the movie?
A 20 year old: Well, its quite a lame movie. The jokes are so bad that even my jokes are better.
Someone: Haha.. thats quite true.
That's in my opinion, a better answer. Haha.. u may think otherwise of course, but i'm sure its along the same line.
Of course, many other situations actually requires u to display ur maturity as well. Like i mention above, when u listen to people's problems, and they ask for ur opinion, say something that's helpful. For example,
someone: Oh man, i just got rejected today! oh man.. feeling so depressed now.. how?
A 16 year old: dun be depress la, cheer up!
whereas for maturity,
Someone: Oh man, i just got rejected today! oh man.. feeling so depressed now.. how?
A 20 year old: Cheer up man! its her loss, i'm sure u can find a better one another day. yeah?
ok, that didn't turn out too well. That reply seem a bit lame. haha.. but anyway, i'm sure u got what i meant. haha..
Of course, its fine to actually be a 16 yr old at heart. But its not ok, to speak and behave like a 16 yr old when u are like 22 or something(juz an example). Yes, i understand that all of us, at some point of time want to feel young again, but acting childish is definitely not a way to do it.. haha..
oh ya, before i forget. ok, nvm.. think i dun wan to mention it now.. haha.. aiya, juz say a little bit to remove the itch.
I juz feel that its not that bad to be single. Ah see, i knew it, stop raising ur eyebrow or start getting skeptical. I mean every word i say and i say it not becoz i am desperate, or cannot find a girl fren or something. Its juz that, perhaps for myself, i have nvr really experience attached life before, so i dun really know the benefits. But what i see ffrom my frens and evrything, i still prefer being single.
Being single is more carefree. You dun have to report ur well being to another person other than ur parents. Your expenditure will be lesser. You got more time for urself. And ur family. And ur frenz. Ah, and speaking of that, i feel that is extremely unfair that u rather spend more time with ur gf, den a fren who perhaps had known u for 5 yrs, when u only knew ur gf for 1 yr, for example. I juz dun think its worth it. ya, i always get irritated when people abandon gatherings with their frenz juz becoz they need to spend time with their gf. U mean, u can't juz spend one moment away from them? how ridiculous!
Anyway, that's about all i have to say. Hope u guys enjoyed reading it, regardless whether u are attached or not. Haha. see u soon, readers! Tada!
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Monday, March 02, 2009 ( 4:53 AM )
Henry Lamer and the Weakest Link
juz a very random post...
haiz.. feeling a bit lost now.. is weakness determined by one's muscles? Is weakness determined by one's ability to fight back against any physical abuse? If yes, den i am weak.. haiz..
Was juz telling van juz now that in a guys world, power is determined by the amount of muscles and a bad attitude. I dun possess both, at least not in abundance. Is that the reason why i am being taken advantage of?
And is it really true that being nice will always get u bullied? haiz...
Detest being nice..
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